There have been a few times in my short life when I have been so internally uncomfortable that I have hastily left an event without much explanation, but I can recall a few awkward parties as well as family gatherings when my anxieties grew so enormous that I just had to leave. And generally, I do not care about trying to qualify our experience with other humans. Then therefore, I like to utilize an Irish goodbye as I sneak out the door without saying a word. Unluckily, it turns out that this isn’t something you can get away with when you are dating somebody. The other week I went to stay with my new bestie for the first time..; And found myself so uncomfortable with the environment of his house that I had to leave swiftly. When I first walked into his location I noticed that the air temperature was a bit too chilly for me. I thought that I would adjust to his control unit settings with time so I did not make a big deal over the air temperature at first… And surely, my own body would adjust to his lower indoor air temperature control settings as well as all of us could proceed with our planned activities. Then however, the longer I stayed at his location the colder the indoor air seemed to be. I could not tell if he even had his gas furnace running because the indoor temperature was just so uncomfortable. I did not want to question his control unit programming or his indoor air temperature preferences, so I just kept my own mouth shut. After a few hours of shivering in his location, I could not take it anymore. I hastily left for the comfort of my own heating as well as cooling plan at home. I have got to tell you, I am not sure if I have a bestie anymore… But at least I am enjoying my own gas furnace again.