Many couples struggle when it comes to dealing with the in-laws.
I personally have many friends who are constantly are bickering to me about how much they can spend their partners mom, or how they never get along with the other side of the family.
For my partner and I however, this is absolutely insane because our families get along so well! just last week for example, I received a call when I was at work from my partner’s father. He is an older man, and he told me that he really needed help getting his air conditioning unit back up and running. I suggested to him that he could just call any old hvac heating and Cooling business, but he kept on telling me that that would be a huge waste of money. even though it was going to get me in trouble, I took off from work and told my boss that I’ll be back later when my Father-in-Law was ok. I looked up a few YouTube videos on how to fix up air conditioning units on your own, and went on to spend the next 2 1/2 hours working on his old unit. I was able to get it up and running finally, and my father was so excited he jumped up to give me a big hug. I think that saying their in-laws as their own parents, then there will be a lot less tension and a lot more love in the relationship.